Does your marriage have an Anne Boleyn? The King Henry VIII of England was so enamored by the commoner Anne Boleyn that he not only divorced his wife Catherine of Aragon, ArabianDate.com review but also set up the Church of England as a separate entity from the Catholic Church, just so he could marry Anne Boleyn. This wasn't a tale of physical infidelity.
Anne refused to be seduced by the
king. It was most dangerous, because the king, being so taken by Anne, was
completely under her control emotionally. Emotional infidelity has destroyed
more marriages than physical infidelity.
If your spouse has cheated on you
with another woman emotionally, here's what you need to do.
1. Be his friend. Talk to him more
often. Talk to him about the problems of your marriage. Do more things
together. Try to do the things that remind him of the romance when you first
met each other. With every gesture you make, remind him that you have been
together through hard times and the good times too. Tell him that you need him.
Show him that you still love him and support him after all these years. Elitesingles Show him that
you share something deeper than just physical intimacy or emotional bonding.
Show him that your marriage is made of stronger stuff.
2. Do more things together. Spend
more time with him. Go shopping for grocery together. Set aside a day for
romantic activities that you used to do together when you first got engaged.
One of my friends makes her husband cook on Sundays. She helps him in the
kitchen and that works wonderfully as a conversation starter. Soon they are as
happy as two kids on a play date. One of my other friends makes ice cream every
time she has a fight with her husband. The emotional temperature cools down
before the ice cream melts. Fix the car together. Talk about your first walk in
the woods together. Go out on a picnic, just the two of you. Rekindle the
romance.
3. Stop acting needy. You need to
appear to be as calm and confident as you used to when you first fell in love.
Men hate neediness. Show him that you are an independent woman who can solve
her own problems and can live without him if need be. Show him that he would be
losing a confidante and a friend if he chose to separate from him. Show him
that you were a pillar of strength for him for all these years and he will
continue needing a strong and confident woman like you in the years to come. LovingFeel.com Show him also that you love yourself more than you
love him and that if he hurts you emotionally, you will move away from him and
find another man for yourself. Read the book, "Romancing the
Ordinary" by Sarah Ban Breathnach to teach yourself to be stronger,
sexier, and more confident as a woman.
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